I was once a young, bored 15/16 year old girl who fancied herself in love with the bad boy…

I had visions of him coming to save me from my house and take me away to his where LOVE would reign supreme and everything would be perfect…

I even went with him on illegal trysts in unsavoury inns, back home in Nigeria…

Well, that happened once…

And as much as he tried to seal the deal with me…

IT SIMPLY WAS NOT HAPPENING!

Deep inside, I knew this was not for me.

I knew I had more value than this…


There are two, maybe more, versions of your life…

The Shiny, amazing version where you allow yourself to dream the big dreams and you realise that those visions are what you can go for and you get on the narrow path and you allow in everything you truly desire…

And then there is the dim version(s) — where you settle for whatever is on your plate currently, regardless of how unsatisfying it is.

Which one do you choose?

In the Hollywood movies where they set these two choices before you, it is usually a choice of being rich and…


Hey, I am Rosemary Nonny Knight and I always know exactly what people need to do next in order to prosper in their relationships, health, wealth, spirituality and work.

I have always known

I have had this powerful gift of intuition for as long as I can remember and it has been such a part of me that I did not even notice it for a very long time…

It did not come with body shaking or angel sightings or ‘Thus said the lord” proclamations…

I just knew

Mostly I held back from telling people because I thought I was…


“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind”

From The Bible

It is like someone sitting through a movie in the cinema, hating it but then going to buy some more popcorn, another ticket and sitting back down to watch it again…

Repeat 10 thousand times…

That is what is happening in your life when you keep rehashing and overthinking the stuff currently happening in your life…

AND THEN to make it even more crazy, do you realise that YOU ARE THE DIRECTOR of the movie????!!!

You put it all together in exactly the way it is playing out but…


You are set apart for something more than you have experienced to date…

You have always felt different from those around you

You have always had a heart to show people a different way

You have thought you had to hide that part of you in the ‘real’world in order to make it

And I guess you have made something

Some might even call it a success

But you know that there is something more for you

The only way you experience true happiness & lasting prosperity is to own your difference

Own your true design

And to dare to…


No one else can see your vision.

No one else can see your dream.

They can have opinions and probably do.

But it matters not.

What you desire may never have been created before by anyone you know but within you is the blueprint to bring it to life, if you dare.

It is easy to read or hear of other way-showers and think of them as having people around them that validated everything they wanted to do.

It is easy to think of pioneers and think that they were always completely sure of themselves and their ideas.

But you…


They said something

You let it mean something

You let it hurt your heart.

You got a little more bitter

You got a little more sad

You blame them

You think the world is against you.

And you hurt

And you suffer.

And you bleed.

But you let it in.

I know words can hurt.

But it is only because of the meaning you give it.

I know it is tough and hard not to give it meaning.

We are used to feeling like victims of other people.

It is hard to stop that habit.

But start now to stop…


You stand on the edge of happiness, unwilling and scared to go all the way in. . It feels impossible that it can be easy to be happy. . It feels almost selfish to believe that being YOU is enough. . You make it complicated. . You look for problems and issues. . You create drama. . And all to avoid being happy, truly deeply happy. . You do not know you do this, of course. . You think that this is just the way it has to be. . Always ALMOST there but never quite there. . And yet…


I know you are a nice person. . I know you want others to think you are a nice person. . BUt you do realise that this is your one life, right? . You do realise that unless you take responsibility for where your energy goes, it will just be spent on everything you do not enjoy, right? . Honey, stop putting yourself in situations that make you feel bad. . YOu have options, you know?! . You do not have to keep saying YES, when you really want to say NO. . Yes, I know that some may think…


You feel deeply hurt. . Who cares whose fault it is? You feel hurt and being around certain people just feels bad. . And I understand that you want to heal fast so that you can be the beacon of love, joy and peace you feel called to be but this is deep hurt that you have not been able to shake for a while. . And you keep throwing yourself back into situations that end with you reliving the pain over and over again. . Please stop. . Give yourself time and space. . Step away. . Stop throwing…

Rosemary Nonny Knight

Leave the past behind, rediscover your true design, live free, fulfilled, financially abundant & love-drenched.👉 RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/bookfree 👈

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