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The Pain Made You Passive. It is time To Heal & Rise
I ain’t gonna lie, I find it pretty hard to talk about pain, particularly pains I have experienced…
I should be fine
I should pretend to be ever powerful
I should be over it
And who needs to know
Who cares?
And the truth is, I am fine, powerful and over it
And anything that I am not over yet, gets handled when it raises its ugly head…
But I got to this place very deliberately
Because I got done with being broken.
I got done with allowing the pain to be my identity…
Yes, crazy stuff happened…
People hurt me
Physically
Emotionally
Sexually
And no, I did not deserve that
No one does
But then when terrible things happen to you, there is a tendency for us to take on the lie that we are now no longer worthy of good things because surely, if this is happening to us then it must be because we are flawed and unworthy…